brrly babbles!!

introduction hello guys and welcome to another brrly babbles blog post!!!!! today we will be talking about the best things to ever happen to me which are ROMANCE BOOKS!! usually when im reading i like to think that im becoming smarter and more educated like how i buy physics books to learn more about physics and whatever but my very guilty pleasure is romance books. like when you see someone reading you think "wow, their brain must be exploding out of their skull right now with all the growth that comes with reading such a book! so studious!" however when im reading a romance book i feel like im not learning anything and it makes me feel unproductive. its kinda embarrassing how i want to be productive all the time but im working on letting myself have breaks and not feel guilty about it because breaks make your brain work more efficiently so like im literally doing myself a favor. anyways since i felt guilty for reading romance books instead of reading something more educatio

Hi guys!!! Currently im on my phone in the car driving to a restaurant and i was thinking about how i should be making use of my time since the drive is 30 minutes long. I’ve been trying to improve my time management and stop mysellf from indulging in wasteless activities when I could be spending my time doing something more productive. Also my phone automatically capitalizes and it’s just easier to be grammatically correct on my phone so my grammar and punctuation will be a bit different than my other blog posts  Anyways I feel like i spend too much time doing stuff that doesn’t matter like scrolling on TikTok or just talking with my friends. LIKE obviously talking with friends and socializing is important but sometimes I call with them while trying to be productive because I don’t want to feel…alone…and it’s like self sabotaging because instead of putting all my brain power into the activity I should be focusing on I’m instead talking with friends!!! Also sometimes I scroll on TikTok

introduction hello everyone and welcome back to another brrly babbles post! today the victim of my babbling is the effects of same vs other sex friendships. i decided upon this topic after encountering countless tiktoks of people saying that if their spouse has a best friend of the opposite gender, then it's a huge red flag. if you're wondering my opinion on this topic, i personally think that it's depends on their friendship and how they treat each other. i don't think that it's a red flag to have a best friend of the opposite gender BUT it does make me a bit insecure and jealous BUT THATS JUST A ME PROBLEM so... anyways this topic of same vs other sex friendships got me thinking. is it better to have a spouse who only has same-sex friendships or a spouse who has a mix of both? if you get jealous super easily then you'd probably choose the spouse who has only same-sex friendships. this means like...no female interaction at ALL. i know that some of you probably